How it works
Simple. Private. At your own pace.
The whole programme is built around one idea: when both of you answer honestly, and the answers appear at the same moment, you can finally see each other again.
- 01
One of you signs up.
Whoever's reading this — that's probably you. Pick a display name (people often use a nickname). Set a password. Three minutes.
- 02
Invite your partner.
We send them a short, private invitation. When they accept, your two accounts link as a couple. You each keep your own private login.
- 03
Start Chapter 1, together.
Each chapter has a purpose, a short bit of reading, and an exercise. You both answer privately. Nothing's shared yet.
- 04
The simultaneous reveal.
When you've both finished, both answers appear at the same moment — side by side, in your shared space. Then you can talk about what you saw.
- 05
The next chapter unlocks.
Chapters move in order. No skipping ahead. No pressure to rush. The next one waits for you, however long you need.
Tip
Most couples do a chapter together — same sofa, two phones. But you don't have to. It works just as well asynchronously, if one of you travels for work or you're navigating different time zones.
Did you know
The most common gap on Chapter 1 (the schedule question) is just two. Most couples assume they're miles apart. Most aren't.